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				<title>Yine bir cuma günü &#x1f339; Senin (sallallahu aleyhi vessellem) huzurunda olmayı tahayyül ediyorum..
Şüphesiz Allah gerçekleştirmeyeceği şeyin hayalini kurdurtmaz... Ümidimiz baki &#x1f339;

Elhamdülillah

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Şüphesiz Allah gerçekleştirmeyeceği şeyin hayalini kurdurtmaz&#8230; Ümidimiz baki &#x1f339;</p>
<p>Elhamdülillah</p>
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				<title>&#x2757;&#xfe0f;&#x2757;&#xfe0f;&#x2757;&#xfe0f;&#x2757;&#xfe0f;&#x2757;&#xfe0f;

21 Kasım – Cuma
Kur’an dersinden sonra:

Efendi Hazretlerinin her gün okunması gereken Yâsînler hakkındaki uyarısı.

Rüyada muhteşem ve çok büyük bir gemi görüldü.
Gemi, büyük buzulları kıra kıra ilerliyordu.
Yâsîn okunması gerektiği Efendimiz tarafından ikaz edildi.

Her gün Yâsîn okuyanların geminin en üst kamaralarında kaldığı görüldü.

22 Kasım ve 12 Aralık arasında çok önemli hıfz ve korunma ayetlerini okumamız gerekecek.

Buzulların kırılması, büyük bir iklim değişikliği—hayvanların gidişi, büyük suların basması gibi—büyük bir şeyin geleceğine işaret ediyordu.
Bu sebeple bunu insanlara yaymamız gerekiyor.

Konu önemli olmasa ikaz gelmezdi.
Hatta Yâsîn okumayanların yüzlerinin karardığı görülmüştü.

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٢١ نوفمبر – يوم الجمعة
بعد درس القرآن الكريم:

تحذيرُ سَيِّدِنا بشأنِ يٰس التي ينبغي قراءتُها كلَّ يوم.

في الرؤيا شوهدت سفينةٌ عظيمةٌ جدًّا ومهيبة، وكانت تتقدّم مُحطِّمةً الجبالَ الجليديّة الكبيرة.
وقد أُنذِرنا من قِبَل النبي ﷺ بوجوب قراءة سورة يٰس.

ورُؤي أن الذين يقرؤون يٰس كلَّ يوم كانوا يقيمون في أعلى غرف السفينة.

وبين ٢٢ نوفمبر و١٢ ديسمبر سنحتاج إلى قراءة آياتٍ مهمّة جدًّا للحفظ والحماية.

وكان تكسُّرُ الجبالِ الجليدية يدلّ على تغيّرٍ مناخيٍّ كبير—كذهاب الحيوانات واندفاع المياه العظيمة—أي أن أمرًا عظيمًا قادم، ويجب علينا نشر هذا التحذير بين الناس.

ولولا أهمّيّةُ الأمرِ لما جاء هذا التنبيه.
وقد شوهد أن وجوه الذين لا يقرؤون يٰس كانت قد اسودّت.

&#x2757;&#xfe0f;&#x2757;&#xfe0f;&#x2757;&#xfe0f;&#x2757;&#xfe0f;


November 21 – Friday
After the Qur’an lesson:

The warning of our Master regarding the Yā-Sīns that must be recited every day.

In the dream, a magnificent and very large ship was seen.
The ship was moving forward while breaking huge icebergs.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) warned that Yā-Sīn must be recited.

It was seen that those who recite Yā-Sīn every day were staying in the highest cabins of the ship.

Between November 22 and December 12 we will need to recite very important verses for ḥifẓ and protection.

The breaking of the icebergs indicated a major climatic change—such as the movement of animals and great waters flooding places—showing that something great is coming, and that we must spread this warning.

If the matter were not important, such a warning would not have come.
It was even seen that the faces of those who did not recite Yā-Sīn had darkened.</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 06:04:04 +0300</pubDate>

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<p>21 Kasım – Cuma<br />
Kur’an dersinden sonra:</p>
<p>Efendi Hazretlerinin her gün okunması gereken Yâsînler hakkındaki uyarısı.</p>
<p>Rüyada muhteşem ve çok büyük bir gemi görüldü.<br />
Gemi, büyük buzulları kıra kıra ilerliyordu.<br />
Yâsîn okunması gerektiği Efendimiz tarafından ikaz edildi.</p>
<p>Her gün Yâsîn okuyanların geminin en üst kamar&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-15597"><a target="_blank" href="https://bayan.katrefm.com/gonul-bahcemiz/p/15597/" rel="nofollow ugc">Daha Fazla Oku</a></span></p>
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				<title>Bibifatima Sanadi profil fotoğrafını değiştirdi</title>
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				<title>آيَةُ الْمُنَافِقِ ثَلاثَ: إِذَا حَدَّثَ كَذَبَ وَإِذَا وَعَدَ أَخْلَفَ وَإِذَا ائْتُمِنَ خَانَ، رَوَاهُ الشَّيْخَانِ عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ.

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Münafığın alâmeti üçtür: Söz söylediğinde yalan söyler; söz verdiğin-de sözünü tutmaz; kendisine bir şey emanet edildiğinde hıyanet eder. (Buhari, İman: 23; Müslim, İman: 25)

&#x1f4d6;  Münafık: Kalpten imän etmediği halde Müslüman görünen kimseye &quot;mü-nafık&quot; denir. Bunlara İslâm toplumunda Müslüman muamelesi yapılır. Böylece:

1. İslâmın sabır ve müsamahası uygulanır.

2. Onların nesillerinden gerçek müminlerin yetişmesine imkân hazırlanır.</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2025 03:45:11 +0300</pubDate>

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<p>&#x1f4d8;<br />
Münafığın alâmeti üçtür: Söz söylediğinde yalan söyler; söz verdiğin-de sözünü tutmaz; kendisine bir şey emanet edildiğinde hıyanet eder. (Buhari, İman: 23; Müslim, İman: 25)</p>
<p>&#x1f4d6;  Münafık&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-15504"><a target="_blank" href="https://bayan.katrefm.com/gonul-bahcemiz/p/15504/" rel="nofollow ugc">Daha Fazla Oku</a></span></p>
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				<title>آفَةُ الْعِلْمِ النِّسْيَانُ، وَإِضَاعَتُهُ أَنْ تُحَدِّثَ بِهِ غَيْرَ أَهْلِهِ». رَوَاهُ ابْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ.
&#x1f4d8;
İlmin åfeti unutmaktır ve zayi olup yitirilmesi de ehil olmayan (onu hakkıyla anlayıp taşıyamayacak olan) kimseye aktarılmasıdır. (İbn-i Ebi Şeybe, Musannef, Edeb: 121) Ayrıca: Sünen-i Darîmi, Mukaddime, 624</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2025 23:00:09 +0300</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="activity-inner"><p>آفَةُ الْعِلْمِ النِّسْيَانُ، وَإِضَاعَتُهُ أَنْ تُحَدِّثَ بِهِ غَيْرَ أَهْلِهِ». رَوَاهُ ابْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ.<br />
&#x1f4d8;<br />
İlmin åfeti unutmaktır ve zayi olup yitirilmesi de ehil olmayan (onu hakkıyla anlayıp taşıyamayacak olan) kimseye aktarılmasıdır. (İbn-i Ebi Şeybe, Musannef, Edeb: 121) Ayrıca: Sünen-i Darîmi, Mukaddime, 624</p>
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				<title>22.06.2025   
(ENGLISH BELOW)
Ali Talip hoca sabah dersi sonrası: 

İnsanın şeyhine olan muhabbeti işini kolaylaştırandır. Bir talebenin ustadına olan muhabbeti onun ustadının huzurunda daha fazla oturmasına sevk eder,  teşvik eder. Normalde de bir kimseyi sevdiğimiz zaman onun sözlerini işitmek isteriz, dinlemek isteriz. Beraberliğimizi artırmak isteriz. Onu kızdıracak şeylerden de uzak durmaya çalışırız, bu sevgi varsa olur.

13 yaşında idim. Bir derse girdiğimiz zaman bir sonraki dersin gelmesini çok istiyorduk. Bu şeyhimize olan sevgiden kaynaklanıyordu.
Ali hoca kendisinden örnek veriyor. 12-13 yaşında iken.. şeyhimin meclisinde bulunmak ilime yönlendiriyordu. Onunla vakit geçirmek istemek onun huzuruna oturtuyordu.

Sabah namazı vaktinde kalkıp mescide şeyhimin huzuruna gidiyordum. Ve dersimi alıyordum. Sabah namazından saat 3 gibi kalkıp saat 6 ya kadar mesela orada oturuyordum. Ondan sonra okula gitmek için izin istiyordum.

Bir gün yatsıdan sonra şeyhimle onun evinden çıktım. Evime gidecektim. Evime geldim. Baktım ki dış kapısı kapanmış. Giremedim içeri. Sonra şeyhimin evine gideyim dedim, baktım uyumuş. O gece bir kamyonun kasasında uyudum. Sonra Sabah namazı vakti gittim tekrar.
Eğer sevgi olmasaydı bunu ne yaptirabilirdi? Kimse zorla kalkıp da tutup da beni şeyhimin huzuruna koymuyordu.

Ay gece dışarıda kaldım, Sonraki gün okulum var,  Sabah derse gidemem vs. demedim. Bahaneler üretmedim.. Bu da yine tamamen sevgi ve muhabbetten kaynaklı.

Ne yapıyordum? Bazı metinleri ezberlememizi istiyordu. Mesela 4 beyti ufak kağıda yazıyordum. Otobüsle evden okula giderken çıkarıp ezberlerimi yapıyordum. Diğer çocuklar sohbet muhabbet ederken. Buna sebep neydi? Şeyhe olan sevgi arttıkça işler hem kolaylaşır hem de daha tatlı olur.

Ikinci konu ise şeyhi sürekli tefekkür etmek, düşünmek, onunla olan bağı kuvvetlendirmek. Bedeninle orada olmayabilirsin. Olabilir. Ama bütün bu hayatın akışına devam ederken. Düşüncesi,  varlığı, muhabbeti onun talebesi olmaklığı aklında olmalıdır. Ne getirir sana bu? Ona olan sevgini artırır. Nihayet aşık edecek ki, aşık olman da lazım.

Bu derslere oturduğumuzda bir niyet almamız lazım. Oturuyorum bu dersi öğrenmeliyim, talep edeniyim  bu ilimlerin ve amel etmeye niyetliyim. Aynı zamanda da başkalarına da öğretmeliyim.. Bu şekilde niyetimizi almamız lazim.

Dünya da hiç bir yerde bu şekilde bir ders verme metodu yoktur. (Efendi Hazretlerinin öğrettikleri..) şimdi mesela talebeler kendileri karar alabilir. Mesela sabah dersi oluyor. Dersi aldıktan sonra kısa tekrar olması lazım..Sabah dersi aldık gün içinde öğlen arasında mola da ikindi de vs. Her gün bir kişi. Bütün talebelerden bir tanesi o gün alınan dersi okuyacak anlatacak, hocalık yapacak ve birlikte müzakere edecekler. Bir sonraki gün bir başkası. Bu şekilde bir alışveriş olacak. Eksik kalınan yeri diğeri tamamlayacak. Bir kaç gün devam edin sizi canlı tutar bu.

Niyet etmemiz lazım, bunları uygulayacağımıza dair ve dua etmemiz lazım şeyhimizi razı etmek için, mutlu etmek için.. bizi ondan uzaklaştıran hasletleri benden al. Sevdiği hasletlerle beni hasletlendir diye.

Zahiri ve batıni edepler de. Bunlara dikkat etmen de ona olan bağlılığını artırır, muhabbetini artırır. Mesela evimizde oturuyoruz aynı mekanda değiliz, ayağımızı şeyhimizin bulunduğu cihete uzatmamalıyız. Batıni edeplerden biridir bu. Zahiri ve batıni edepleri sürekli canlı tutmamız gerekir. Bunlara dikkat etmek şeyhe olan bağlılığı artırır muhabbeti artırır.

22.06.2025

Ali Talip Hoca after the morning lesson:

Love for one’s Shaykh makes everything easier. A student&#039;s affection for their teacher encourages them to spend more time in their presence. Normally, when we love someone, we want to hear what they have to say, we enjoy listening to them, and we want to increase our time with them. We also avoid doing things that may upset them, this only happens when true love exists.

I was 13 years old. Every time we attended a lesson, we eagerly waited for the next one. This desire came from our love for our Shaykh.
Ali Hoca is speaking from personal experience—when he was around 12–13 years old, simply being in his Shaykh’s gathering inspired him to pursue knowledge. Wanting to spend time with his Shaykh naturally led him to sit in his presence.

At the time of the morning prayer (fajr), I would get up and go to the masjid to be with my Shaykh and take my lessons. I would wake up around 3 a.m. and sit there until around 6 a.m. After that, I would ask for permission to go to school.

One night, after the night prayer (isha), I left my Shaykh’s house and headed home. When I arrived, I realized the front door was locked, I couldn&#039;t get in. So I decided to go back to my Shaykh’s house, but he had already gone to sleep. That night, I slept in the back of a truck. The next morning, I went back to him for the lesson. If there hadn&#039;t been love, what else could have driven me to do that? No one was forcing me to get up or dragging me to sit in my Shaykh’s presence.

I didn’t say, “I spent the night outside, I have school tomorrow, I can’t go to class in the morning.” I didn’t make excuses. All of it stemmed purely from love and deep affection.

What did I do? He used to ask us to memorize certain texts. I would write down four couplets on a small piece of paper and memorize them on the bus ride to school, while other kids were chatting and joking. What motivated me? As love for the Shaykh grows, tasks become easier and even sweeter.

The second point is constantly reflecting on the Shaykh, thinking about him, and strengthening that bond. Your body may not always be in his presence but while life goes on, his memory, his love, and the honor of being his student should remain in your mind.
What does that bring? It increases your love for him. Eventually, you must fall in love and falling in love is necessary.

When we sit in these lessons, we must have an intention:
“I am sitting here to learn this knowledge, I seek it sincerely, and I intend to act upon it. I also intend to teach it to others.”
This is the mindset we must adopt.

There is no method of teaching like this anywhere else in the world. (Referring to the teaching methods of Mawlana.) Now, for example, students can take the initiative themselves. After the morning class, there should be a short review. That day, one student from the group will review and explain what was taught, essentially taking on the role of a teacher, and they will all discuss it together. The next day, another student does it. This kind of exchange helps everyone grow. If anything is missed, someone else will fill in the gap.
Keep this practice going for a few days, it will keep your learning alive.

We must make the intention to practice these things, and we must pray:
“O Allah, help me please my Shaykh, make him happy with me. Remove from me the qualities that distance me from him, and bless me with the qualities he loves.”

Paying attention to both external (zahir) and internal (Batin) etiquettes (adab) also strengthens the bond with the Shaykh and increases love. For example, even if we’re sitting in our own homes, not physically near our Shaykh, we should avoid stretching our legs in the direction where he might be. This is an example of spiritual adab.
We must always keep these outer and inner etiquettes alive. Taking care of them increases connection and love for the Shaykh.</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2025 02:24:55 +0300</pubDate>

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(ENGLISH BELOW)<br />
Ali Talip hoca sabah dersi sonrası: </p>
<p>İnsanın şeyhine olan muhabbeti işini kolaylaştırandır. Bir talebenin ustadına olan muhabbeti onun ustadının huzurunda daha fazla oturmasına sevk eder,  teşvik eder. Normalde de bir kimseyi sevdiğimiz zaman onun sözlerini işitmek isteriz, dinlemek isteriz. Beraberliğimizi&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-14815"><a target="_blank" href="https://bayan.katrefm.com/gonul-bahcemiz/p/14815/" rel="nofollow ugc">Daha Fazla Oku</a></span></p>
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				<title>&#x2b50;&#xfe0f; Yaptığım araştırmaya göre elektriksel iletkenlik arttıkça bir malzemenin elektromanyetik dalgaları yansıtma eğilimi artar. Ama iletkenlik azalırsa o madde o elektromanyetik dalgaları emer. 

&#x1f446;&#x1f3fb;Suyun neden münafık özelliği olduğunu bu noktada daha çok anladım sadece girdiği kabın şeklini alması değil, elektromanyetik dalgaları soğurması (yani emmesi) ile o dalgalarla verilen mesajları da yüklenebilir. (Bu batındaki etkisi)

&#x1f449; Zahirde ise enerjinin dönüşümü kanunu gereği bu emdiği enerjiyi ısı olarak açığa çıkarır. Yani wifi dalgaları hücrelerimizdeki suyu ısıtarak vücudumuzdaki harareti ateş kuvvetini artırır şeytan da bunu öfke sinir gerginlik olarak kullanabilir. Mikrodalga fırınların çalışma prensibi böyledir wifi gibi düşük frekansta uzun dalga boyunda elektromanyetik dalgalar yayar bu dalgalar suyla buluştuğunda emilir ve ısıya dönüşür yani yiyecekteki suyu ısıtır böylece yiyecek ısınmış olur. 

&#x1f447;&#x1f3fb;Bizim vücudumuzda da bu etkisi hadisi şerifte geçen 4 sığınma noktasında “euzu bike min azabin nari” duasının şerhinde yaptığınız gibi şeytanın ateşle birlikte öfke ve sinirlenme ile yaptırım gücünü üzerimizde kullanmasına dalalet edebilir. Toplumun son zamanlarda ne kadar gergin ve sinirli olduğu da aşikardır.

&#x2b50;&#xfe0f;Araştırmalarıma göre elektriksel olarak en iletken maden gümüştür bu da üzerimizde gümüş taşıdığımızda elektromanyetik dalgaları geri yansıtacağı anlamına gelir.

&#x2b50;&#xfe0f;Bir başka nokta ise saçların alıcı gibi davrandıkları herkesçe bilinir. Dinimizin buyruğu olan tesettür ile sizin, evde dahi başınızı örtün uyarınız ve erkeklerin de baş açık gezmemesi takke kullanması gerektiğini ikaz etmeniz bizlere koruyucu niteliktedir. 

&#x2728;Geçen gün yaptığım bir deneyin sonuçlarını da sizlerle paylaşmak isterim.
Musluk suyunun iletkenliğini ölçtüm, sonuç 127.8 geldi. 
&#x1f449;Aynı kaptaki suya sizin bu tehlikeye karşı verdiğiniz tavsiyeyi uyguladım yani ezan dinlettim. Sadece iki dakika içinde iletkenliği 156.1’e çıktı. 
&#x1f31f;Zemzem suyunun iletkenliğini ölçtüğümde ise sürekli artış halinde idi en son kaydettiğim nokta 671.1 idi.

&#x1f449;Bu deneyden çıkarılacak sonuç başta ifade ettiğim kaideye dayanır. İletkenlik arttıkça bir malzemenin elektromanyetik dalgaları yansıtma eğilimi artar. Ama iletkenlik azalırsa o madde o elektromanyetik dalgaları emer, yani yüklenir.

&#x1f449;Zira Faraday kafesi denilen elektromanyetik alanlardan korunmak için yapılan korunma kutuları da en iletken maddelerden yapılarak dalgaları geri yansıtılarak içeri girmesini engeller. Bu kafeslerde maliyet nedeni ile bakır gibi daha ucuz madenler kullanılsa da gümüş bakırdan da diğer tüm madenlerden de daha iyi iletkendir.</title>
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<p>&#x1f446;&#x1f3fb;Suyun neden münafık özelliği olduğunu bu noktada daha çok anladım sadece girdiği kabın şeklini alması değil, elektromanyetik dalgaları soğurması (yan&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-14369"><a target="_blank" href="https://bayan.katrefm.com/gonul-bahcemiz/p/14369/" rel="nofollow ugc">Daha Fazla Oku</a></span></p>
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				<title>Even if a person sits in the presence of a scholar and understands nothing of what is said, seven blessings are bestowed upon them:

- They attain the virtue of seeking knowledge.
- They are protected from sins as long as they remain in the scholar’s company.
- If they leave their home with the intention of seeking knowledge, mercy descends upon them.
- When blessings descend upon the gathering, they receive a share of it.
- They are rewarded for worship as long as they listen.
- If their heart feels constricted due to their inability to understand or grasp knowledge, this sorrow becomes a means of mercy for them. For it is stated in a noble hadith:  
*&quot;I am with those whose hearts are broken for My sake.&quot;*
- By witnessing the scholar’s esteem among people and the disgrace of the sinner, their heart is softened, and their disposition inclines toward knowledge.  

For this reason, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) commanded us to keep the company of scholars.

-Samarkandi, Tuhfet al-Fudala</title>
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<p>&#8211; They attain the virtue of seeking knowledge.<br />
&#8211; They are protected from sins as long as they remain in the scholar’s company.<br />
&#8211; If they leave their home with the intention of seeking knowledge, mercy descends u&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-14330"><a target="_blank" href="https://bayan.katrefm.com/gonul-bahcemiz/p/14330/" rel="nofollow ugc">Daha Fazla Oku</a></span></p>
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				<title>Sultan Birinci Abdülhamid’in, Peygamber Efendimiz’e (sallallahu aleyhi ve sellem) 1777 yılında Arapçada yazmış olduğu Hücre Kasidesi. 

Şiirin mısraları Hücre-i Saadet’in cephelerine yazılmış ve 2 asır boyunca kalmış. Bu övgü dolu sözlerden rahatsız olanlar şimdi önüne başka levhalar ekleyip bir kısmını da boyalarla sıvalarla görünmeyecek hâle getirmeyi başarmışlar. Kaside kaybolmasın diye Şeyh Muhammed ibn Alawi el Maliki (ks) hz’leri bunu kendi kitabına eklemiş. Allah ondan razı olsun. Kitabın ismi “Shifa Al Fuad bi-Ziyarati Khayr Al Ibad”.

&#x1f33f;Hücre Kasidesi&#x1f33f;
(yetersiz bir tercüme)

&quot;Ey Efendim, ey Allah’ın Resulü, elimi tut. Senden başka kimsem yok ve başka kimseye sığınmam. Sen her varlığın içindeki hidayet nurusun ve Sen cömertliğin efendisisin, ey en güvenilir dayanağım.&quot;

&quot;Ve Sen gerçekten tüm yaratılmışların imdadına yetişensin, ve Sen insanlığı, doğruluk sahibi olan Allah’a hidayet edensin. Ey övgü makamında tek başına duran, bir ve tek olan, doğurulmamış ve doğurmamış olan tarafından!&quot;

&quot;Ey parmaklarından nehirlerin fışkırdığı, kaynayıp aktığı ve orduyu destekle suladığı zat! Şüphesiz ki, bana bir zarar dokunduğunda veya bir sıkıntı baş gösterdiğinde, derim ki: &#039;Ey efendilerin efendisi, ey dayanağım!&#039;&quot;

&quot;Hatalarım için Rahman’la (aramda) şefaatçi ol, ve kalbimin erişemediği şeyi bana lütfet. Daima ve ebediyen bana hoşnutluk gözüyle bak ve (hayatım boyunca) sonsuz kereminle kusurlarımı ört, eksikliklerimi gizle.&quot;

&quot;Ve bana affınla lütfet, öyle ki bu bağış beni doyursun,  
Çünkü ben, ey Mevlam, senden asla yüz çevirmedim.  
Şüphesiz ben, seçilmiş olanla (Muhammed’le) tevessül ediyorum, o ki en şereflisidir,  
Bir ve tek olanın (Allah’ın) sırrıyla gökyüzüne yükselen.&quot;

&quot;Güzelliklerin Rabbi, Onu yaratan Allah yücedir, çünkü tüm yaratılmışlar arasında Onun gibisini görmedim.  
Yaratılmışların en hayırlısı, gönderilen elçilerin en yücesi,  
İnsanlığın hazinesi ve onları doğruluğa hidayet eden.&quot;

&quot;Onunla sığındım, umarım ki Allah beni bağışlar.
Bu benim dayanağım ve kesin olarak inandığımdır.
Bu sebeple yorulmaksızın Onu övmek, ömrüm boyunca vazgeçilmeyecek iştir.  
Ve Ona duyduğum sevgi, Arş’ın Rabbi katında tek dayanağımdır.&quot;

&quot;Ona (Peygamber’e) sonsuza dek kesintisiz salât olsun,  
Selam ile birlikte, sayısız ve hesapsız.  
Ve onun ailesine, arkadaşlarına, hepsine, şeref sahiplerine, cömertlik denizinin sakinlerine, iyilik ve destek ehline.&quot;

&quot;Sonra salât, yaratılmışların en hayırlısına olsun,  
ki ona Allah’ın vahyini Cebrail getirdi.  
Rehberlerin en hayırlısına salâtın bolluğu aksın,  
yıldızlar ufuklarda parladığı sürece.&quot;</title>
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<p>Şiirin mısraları Hücre-i Saadet’in cephelerine yazılmış ve 2 asır boyunca kalmış. Bu övgü dolu sözlerden rahatsız olanlar şimdi önüne başka levhalar ekleyip bir kısmını da boyalarla sıvalarla görünmeyecek h&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-13979"><a target="_blank" href="https://bayan.katrefm.com/gonul-bahcemiz/p/13979/" rel="nofollow ugc">Daha Fazla Oku</a></span></p>
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Evening Lesson on 14.02.25:
With Mawlana English Translation: 

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;The Quran speaks about the Kuba Mosque, which was built upon piety. Alhamdulillah, our assembly in Goa is just like that. We were very happy. The people there are sincere, and the number of attendees is very high. InshaAllah, may every land be filled with people who love and seek Allah and His Messenger.

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;Dajjalism enforces three things to destroy civilizations and keep people confined within a mold:

1. Destroy the concept of family.
Women should be made to believe that motherhood is a source of shame. Housewives should feel embarrassed for working at home. Once that happens, the concept of family collapses.

Yet, the Prophet (peace be upon him) said, &quot;Paradise lies beneath the feet of mothers,&quot; not women in general. A woman who raises and nurtures her child is called a mother. But a woman who works outside and entrusts her child to someone else cannot truly be called a mother.

A mother’s right is threefold, while a father’s is only one. If a mother takes money from her child&#039;s pocket, no sin is recorded. However, if a father takes it without permission, it is considered a sin.

We must understand that it is the woman who establishes the family, not the man. As the proverb goes, &quot;The female bird builds the nest,&quot; and that is the truth.

2. Destroy education.
Undermine respect for teachers so that they lose their status in society.

Make students insult their teachers until they no longer hold any value or authority.

3. Eliminate values and role models.
Destroy everything that holds value in society—scholars, saints, and judges.

This means erasing the traditions of the Prophet (peace be upon him) and the customs beloved by the people.

They have succeeded in this by spreading slander and doubt, ensuring that no one listens to them anymore.

To accomplish these goals, they use worldly desires to keep people distracted—through advertisements, irrelevant news, and constant engagement with meaningless things. As a result, values disappear, and they have already succeeded in this.

We need to learn to let go. But what? We keep repeating the same mistakes, suffering consequences, yet never letting go. It’s fascinating how deeply people have been conditioned to occupy themselves with useless distractions. Even when these things harm their bodies, wealth, and families, they refuse to abandon them.

For example, scientific studies in Europe and America show how watching harmful content damages the human body and leads to divorces. People desire others outside their marriage, abandon their families, and thus, the concept of family is vanishing.
There are forces that make people repeat the same mistakes. Even when they bring misfortune, people still fall into the same traps.

Everything that harms the human body is a problem. Just as a single drop of ink can darken an entire glass of water, exposure to harmful things corrupts a person. Even though this is well known, people continue to do it and refuse to let go. If we don’t free ourselves from this, if we don’t respect others’ thoughts, and if we don’t follow the path of our elders, all meaningful values will disappear, and Dajjalism will establish its dominance.

No one rises to a higher rank without being tested. Every position and every role comes with an examination. People must be scrutinized to determine their level of mastery.

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;Youth today say, &quot;Life is free.&quot;

They believe they can do whatever they want.
But you cannot do whatever you want.
If you isolate yourself from others, refusing to engage with anyone, you will have neither friends nor anyone who cares for you.

Mistakes may be forgiven once or twice, but by the third time, punishment is certain.
Trouble will definitely come your way.

A robotic humanity has been created—people who, through their actions, push everyone away yet feel no concern about it. This is leading to a major crisis.

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;One day, Sheikh Vechuddin came in a dream. He was wearing the clothes of a gypsy and was rushing towards the house of someone I knew. I couldn’t make sense of it, so I visited that house and told them about my dream. They fell silent and did not answer. I asked, &quot;Do you have any gypsy friends?&quot; and they said, &quot;Yes, we do.&quot;
This is a matter you should be careful about—I told you to stay away.
I&#039;m not saying this to criticize the Gypsies. They live a careless life, indifferent to others, unwilling to take advice, and living on their own. As a result, they have become a group that isolates itself from society.
After this situation, there was a very talented young man. This happened 6-7 years ago. On the night of Bara&#039;at, he and his friends decided to go to a casino. In Turkey, a casino is not like in Russia—it’s a place with alcohol, prohibited activities, and women dancing. When they got there, he told his friends, &quot;This is not the right night for this.&quot; But they insisted on staying. They drank, probably got into a fight, and on their way back, they crashed into a tree with a BMW. The car burned, and everyone inside died.
That family was devastated. When I went to offer my condolences, I reminded them: &quot;The fact that he ran to your house in that outfit was already a sign. Why didn&#039;t you listen ten days ago?&quot;
We&#039;ve reached a point where exemplary people are no longer taken seriously. Everyone has a final destination. We are all heading toward the grave.

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;The Role of Women in Family Structure:

The woman is at the foundation of the family. Allah says:
&quot;A good word is like a good tree: its roots are firm, and its branches reach the sky.&quot; (Qur&#039;an 14:24)
If a mother is truly a mother—if she dedicates herself to her child and raises them well—wherever that child goes, they will always receive divine help and be elevated because of their mother&#039;s upbringing.

Proper upbringing starts from pregnancy. If a mother nurtures her child with La ilaha illallah while nursing, raising them with Kalimah Tayyibah, then that child will always receive divine support.

Mothers of the past never said, &quot;Our future is uncertain.&quot; But now, children from such families say, &quot;Who can we trust? Our future is uncertain, so we must study and find a career.&quot;

Now, when a woman becomes pregnant, will she focus on raising her child or her job? She can never be like our mothers. Their work will always come before their motherhood, as will their salaries. That’s why they hire nannies. And since those nannies don’t have their own children, they don’t care about raising them properly either.

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;There are many examples from the elders. Ahmedi Bican and Mehmed Bican were two brothers from among the Awliyaullah (friends of Allah). One day, Ahmedi Bican went to his mother and said, &quot;While I was giving a sermon, my brother was not paying attention to the lesson. He was talking to the person next to him.&quot;
His mother then went to Mehmed and asked, &quot;Mehmed, why were you talking to someone else while your brother was giving a lesson?&quot;
Mehmed replied, &quot;Mother, it wasn’t just anyone. That was Khidr (alayhi salam).&quot;
Khidr &#x1f339; (a.s.) had told him, &quot;Your brother explains things beautifully. It is as if he has deep knowledge of these matters, just like us.&quot;

When the mother told Ahmedi about this, he was upset and asked, &quot;Mother, if the one sitting next to my brother was really Khidr, and my brother recognized him, why didn’t I know?&quot;

His mother responded, &quot;Ahmedi, I never gave you milk without ablution. But one day, while I was praying, you started crying. A neighbor came and gave you milk at that moment. When I finished my prayer, I asked if she had ablution, and she said no. That is the reason.&quot;

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;The Power of a Righteous Word

In the Quran, it is said:

&quot;A good word is like a good tree: it always bears fruit.&quot; (Ibrahim 25)

A kalimah tayyibah (pure word, la ilahe ilallah) will always return to its essence and become like a fruitful tree, no matter where it is planted. That is why the mother is the greatest educator. Allah commands:
&quot;Do not even say &#039;Uff&#039; to your parents.&quot;

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;The Great Trial of This Era

These concepts are among the greatest calamities affecting our society today. Every prophet prayed against the fitnah (tribulation) of the dajjal. &quot;O Allah, protect us from their deception!&quot;

We must teach our children to seek refuge in Allah from these trials. If we fail, society will continue to deteriorate.
Dua: 
اللَّهُمَّ إني أعوذ بك من عذاب النار،
و من عذاب القبر,
ومن فتنة الْمَحْيَا وَالْمَمَاتِ،
ومن فتنة الْمَسِيحِ الدَّجَّال.
Allahumme inni eužibike min âzabin nar,
Ve min âzabil qabr,
Ve min fitnetil mahya ve memat,
Ve min fitnetil mesihid deccal.

In Turkey, a boy recently killed his own father and stayed in the same room with the body for a week. There is immense pressure on people today. All values are disappearing.

If there is no religion, conscience cannot establish control. If the human conscience does not rule over the body, then everything becomes permissible in their eyes.

All kinds of prohibitions begin to be violated.
People no longer fear Allah.
Nor do they fear His creation.

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;One day, Caliph Omar (Hz. Ömer) visited a companion who was in the throes of death. He sat beside him, offering words of encouragement (talqīn). Soon, the man passed away. Umar then extinguished the lamp next to him.

When asked why he did that, he responded, &quot;He has now passed away, and his heirs have a right over everything he owned. Since one of the heirs is not present, I cannot use this lamp without their permission.&quot;

Hz. Omar was once a man who had buried his own daughter alive. But after embracing Islam, he underwent a transformation so profound that it changed him completely. The Prophet (ﷺ) did not simply give theoretical teachings—he cultivated individuals who embodied the principles of justice and morality. Umar extinguished the lamp to ensure he did not consume someone else’s rightful share, no matter how small.

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;The Consequences of Injustice

We must never forget: When one takes from falsehood (bāṭil), one starves from truth (ḥaqq). But if one remains steadfast in truth, no falsehood can stand in their way.

Someone goes on vacation, saying, &quot;I am exhausted; I need rest.&quot; But after the holiday, they are still not rested. Why? Because they indulged in falsehood—looking at the forbidden, consuming the forbidden.

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;The Prophet’s Example

The Prophet (ﷺ) showed us how to live by divine commands. Once, a delegation from Abyssinia (Habesha) came to visit him. Instead of allowing others to serve, the Prophet himself got up and attended to them.

The companions said, &quot;O Messenger of Allah, let us serve them!&quot;

But he replied, &quot;No. They once honored my companions, so now I must honor them in return.&quot;

From the Prophet (ﷺ), we learn every detail of Rahmah (mercy). But if faith is abandoned and values are altered, people begin to mock righteousness. Youth are on the verge of being lost.

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;The Isolation of the Elderly

During the COVID-19 pandemic, the elderly were deliberately targeted. Not only were they left vulnerable to death, but they were also abandoned in loneliness—so that people would not listen to their wisdom.

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;The Story of Socrates

Socrates was once considered the greatest physician of ancient Greece. However, his neighbor, who was also a doctor, was extremely jealous of him. Eventually, the neighbor approached the king and said, &quot;I am a better doctor than Socrates. If he disagrees, let us both prepare a poison and its antidote. Whoever successfully cures himself shall live; the one who fails shall die.&quot;

The king found the challenge intriguing and agreed.
For forty days, Socrates’ house echoed with the sound of dripping water. His rival could hear the dripping day and night. On the forty-first day, they both went to the palace.
Socrates drank first, then took his antidote and remained unharmed. When his rival drank from Socrates&#039; water, he died instantly.
The king asked, &quot;How did you make your poison so powerful?&quot;

Socrates replied, &quot;I did not use poison at all.&quot; Then, he drank the remaining water himself to prove it was harmless. &quot;I only let the sound of dripping water play in his mind. He convinced himself that he was being poisoned. Fear killed him.&quot;

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;Caring for Others is an Act of Worship
One of the teachings of our faith is to help others unburden their worries. Lightening someone’s distress is zakāt for you—it is a form of charity and a great reward. When you listen to someone’s troubles, you offer them relief. Those who value people are valued by Allah.

Even just nodding and saying, &quot;Yes, mother,&quot; can bring immense comfort to an elderly person. They long for a simple phone call.

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;Whoever treats Allah’s creation with kindness will be treated by Allah in the same way—both in this world and the next.

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;If you seek goodness from Allah, do good to His servants.
If you desire mercy, be merciful to others.

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;We must learn to win hearts. Winning hearts is an act of worship—it is called Jabr al-Khawātir in Islam.

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;There is an Arabic proverb:
&quot;Whoever makes an effort to heal hearts, Allah will come to their aid in every moment of danger.&quot;

&#x2728;&#xfe0f;As the saying goes: Kama tudīn tudān — As you treat others, so shall you be treated.</title>
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Evening Lesson on 14.02.25:<br />
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<p>&#x2728;&#xfe0f;The Quran speaks about the Kuba Mosque, which was built upon piety. Alhamdulillah, our assembly in Goa is just like that. We were very happy. The people there are sincere, and the number of attendees is very high. InshaAllah, may every land be filled with people who love&hellip;<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-13964"><a target="_blank" href="https://bayan.katrefm.com/gonul-bahcemiz/p/13964/" rel="nofollow ugc">Daha Fazla Oku</a></span></p>
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				<title>Ebû Hanîfe (rahmetullâhi aleyh) şöyle buyurdu:

 لو يعلم الملوك ما نحن فيه من لذة العلم لحاربونا عليه بالسيوف 
&#x2764;&#xfe0f;&#x1f970;&#x1f4ab;
Eğer bizim ilimden aldığımız tadı krallar, padişahlar bilselerdi, ilmi bizden almak için ordularıyla üzerimize yürürlerdi.</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Mar 2024 16:16:31 +0300</pubDate>

									<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="activity-inner"><p>Ebû Hanîfe (rahmetullâhi aleyh) şöyle buyurdu:</p>
<p> لو يعلم الملوك ما نحن فيه من لذة العلم لحاربونا عليه بالسيوف<br />
&#x2764;&#xfe0f;&#x1f970;&#x1f4ab;<br />
Eğer bizim ilimden aldığımız tadı krallar, padişahlar bilselerdi, ilmi bizden almak için ordularıyla üzerimize yürürlerdi.</p>
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